You’re Welcome-giving Day is observed every year, on the day after Thanksgiving which falls on November 29th this year. You’re Welcome-giving Day was created to remind people to say “you’re welcome” as a response to the appreciation that people showed during Thanksgiving. When people say “thank you,” the response is usually “you’re welcome.”
After Thanksgiving, it’s time to celebrate You’re Welcomegiving Day. For our family this would be David because he was kind enough to cook all of #Thanksgiving dinner on his own and even cleaned up for our family. Who cooked for you and who cleaned up and why?
The history of You’re Welcomegiving Day is cloaked in controversy; some say You’re Welcome-giving Day was created by a man called Richard Ankli as a way to add an extra day to the Thanksgiving weekend. However, others speculate that You’re Welcome-giving Day originated from a blog post in 2002. Whatever the case, we know how important it is to properly show and accept appreciation, which is the purpose of You’re Welcomegiving Day!
The phrase “you’re welcome” was used as a response to the phrase “thank you” as far back as 1603 and is found in Shakespeare’s play, “Othello.” The phrase stems from the old English word ‘wilcuma,’ which is a combination of the words ‘guest’ and ‘pleasure.’ Though your welcome is also used to graciously welcome a guest, it has become a commonplace response to thanks.
However, it is believed by some that the phrase carries some underlying smugness or self-appreciation. Your welcome has also become a rote response that most people may recite without even realizing it. I know I do that at times. How about you?
On Social Media, a person might create a post with some meaningful or entertaining information and caption it with the phrase “you’re welcome,” acknowledging that people will appreciate it. This is also done outside of Social Media, as a person might not even wait for a show of appreciation after a kind act before spouting the phrase “you’re welcome.”
This is not to say that “you’re welcome” isn’t a much-needed part of social interaction. However, whether one uses those exact words or replaces them with others, the point remains that we are to accept appreciation with the same humility and grace as we received. The privilege of being a blessing is indeed one to be grateful for.
How To Celebrate You’re Welcomegiving Day
- When someone expresses their appreciation for something you’ve done, remember to respond with grace and humility for getting the privilege to be a blessing to others and always welcome everyone.
- ”It’s important to show gratitude and appreciation when someone does or says something kind to you. Saying “thank you” should become a habit that extends beyond You’re Welcomegiving Day.
- Use the hashtag and let everyone know why we’re celebrating You’re Welcomegiving Day and then, get on Social Media and add the hashtag #yourewelcomegivingday to a post about appreciation and humility.
Important Facts About Ways To Say “You’re Welcome”
- My Pleasure is an example of “It is my pleasure to be of service.”
- No problem is an example of “No problem at all.”
- I was honored is an example of “I was honored to do it.”
- You’re so kind is an example of “You’re so kind.”
- Very welcome is an example of “You’re very welcome.”
Why People Love You’re Welcomegiving Day
We can demonstrate humility in both giving and receiving thanks, which is an attitude of humility and it is necessary. Therefore, give thanks with humility and receive thanks with the same gracious attitude.
In our fast-paced world, people often forget to slow down and appreciate both the little and the big things in life. On You’re Welcomegiving Day, we’re reminded to pause and reflect on our blessings.
You’re Welcomegiving Day also reminds us to appreciate those who show love and kindness. Whether it be the thoughtful stranger who held a door open for us or parents who do the seemingly mundane tasks that make our lives just a little bit easier, show your appreciation and even take the time to thank yourself for all you do for yourself and others as well.
Thank you,
Glenda, Charlie and David Cates
