I would like to share a wonderful book for moms as children return to school soon. It’s Not about the Wine: The Loaded Truth behind Mommy Wine Culture by Celeste Yvonne. I was blessed to receive a copy of the book which is inside our Back-to-School Guide 2023 to keep moms sane not only during the school year but all year long.
When Suzzane was first killed, I began to drink more than I should have. thank the Lord I quit before I became pregnant with Charlie. Now, I only drink occasionally and hardly ever drank Wine and when it is i’\s Sangria. I did read the book from cover-to-cover in one setting as I found a lot of the information hit close to home not only in my life but my friends and family.
All mom’s and even dads should take the time to read It’s Not about the Wine: The Loaded Truth behind Mommy Wine Culture and to check our her website. Especially if you know someone who is drinking and yes, even one glass counts. Which is what David does in the evenings and why I will be reading and sharing this book with him and Charlie. My dad and Charlie’s dad are alcoholics.I don’t want Charlie to become one.
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Alcohol isn’t going to fix the systemic lack of support for mothers–and pretending it’s the solution to surviving motherhood does more harm than good.
A wine glass etched with “Mommy needs wine“; a T-shirt that says, “I wine because my kids whine“; a onesie proclaiming, “I’m the reason mommy drinks.” This is Mommy Wine Culture: the pervasive message that alcohol helps us survive motherhood. But according to writer and mother Celeste Yvonne, it’s a symptom of a much larger issue: the mental load of motherhood, a burden born from outdated family norms, traditional roles, and a systemic lack of support for moms–all of which impact our mental health.
In this refreshing, honest take on some of the most pressing concerns for twenty-first-century parents, Yvonne mixes research, cultural references, her own story, and engaging interviews with other moms who sought refuge in wine and found a way out. Drinking to blur the tumultuous days of parenting is a catch-22: it actually keeps us from being present during this precious time. It’s Not about the Wine pulls back the veil on what’s really plaguing mothers, offers tangible tips for how to lighten your mental load, and paves a path forward for all of us who want to survive and thrive during these weary and wonderful years.
From advice on talking about your mental load with your partner, to curating the media we consume and the company we keep, to deep reflections about how we use alcohol to manage burnout and stress, Yvonne helps us recognize the messaging of Mommy Wine Culture for what it is: a distraction from what we really need. If you are worn out and looking to evaluate your relationship to alcohol and motherhood, It’s Not about the Wine is an invaluable companion.
Meet the Author: Celeste Yvonne
Celeste Yvonne is a writer, mom, and marketing professional. Her work on parenting, the mental load of motherhood, mommy wine culture, and sobriety resonates with mothers around the world and has been featured in the Washington Post, Good Morning America, the Today show, and Refinery 29, among others.
Celeste is more than five years sober and a founding host of the Sober Mom Squad. She is an advocate for mothers who struggle with addiction and a recipient of the Windfelt Inspire Award by the Dry Society Social Club. She lives in Reno, Nevada, with her husband and two boys.
Thank you,
Glenda, Charlie and David Cates
