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Expert identifies the emotional warning signs that shouldn’t be ignored
Key Findings
- Expert recommends looking out for these signs of burnout if you are the parent of a child with autism so that you can catch it early
- Signs include constant exhaustion, withdrawal from friends and family, and loss of joy or motivation
- Expert says to manage burnout, build a supportive community, take the time for self care, and know when to accept help
Being a parent is a full-time job that can be both rewarding and exhausting. Being the parent of a child with autism can be very demanding despite what a joy it is to watch your child navigate life in their own way.
For many parents, the emotional and physical toll of raising a child with autism can lead to burnout, a state of chronic exhaustion that impacts their ability to provide adequate care. Recognizing the signs of burnout is important for anyone raising a child with autism, as it can lead to serious consequences for both parents and their children.
Mark Blakey, an autism support expert and the CEO of Autism Parenting Magazine, emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in caregivers. “Parents of children with autism often pour everything into their child’s needs, sometimes at the cost of their own well-being. Recognizing burnout isn’t about weakness, it’s about making sure you have the energy and mental resilience to support your child long-term.”
Here, Blakey reveals six signs that suggest you might be suffering from burnout as the parent of a child with autism.
6 Signs You May Be Experiencing Parental Burnout
- Constant Exhaustion
Feeling physically or emotionally drained, even after rest, is an indicator of burnout. “If getting through the day feels overwhelming, it might be time to evaluate your stress levels,” says Blakey.
- Increased Irritability or Emotional Sensitivity
Small frustrations may feel unbearable, and you might find yourself more prone to mood swings, tears, or snapping at loved ones.
- Loss of Joy or Motivation
If activities that once brought happiness now feel like a chore, or you struggle to find motivation for everyday tasks, it could be a sign of emotional burnout.
- Withdrawal from Friends and Family
Isolation is a common response to burnout. “If you find yourself avoiding social interactions, even with those who offer support, it may be a red flag that burnout is beginning,” warns Blakey.
- Physical Symptoms of Stress
Burnout often manifests physically through headaches, muscle tension, frequent illness, or digestive issues caused by prolonged stress. “Frequent stomach aches may have nothing to do with what you are eating and all to do with burnout,” says Blakey.
- Feeling Overwhelmed or Hopeless
Feeling trapped, inadequate, or emotionally numb can indicate severe burnout, making even small decisions feel insurmountable. “If you start to feel this way, don’t be afraid to tell your loved ones,” urges Blakey. “This is not a battle you have to fight alone.”
Why Burnout is Common Among Parents of Children with Autism
Raising a child with autism presents unique challenges, including navigating therapies, advocating for educational needs, and managing sensory sensitivities and behavioral differences.
“The added emotional labor of constantly looking out for your child in social settings and advocating for their inclusion and well-being in a world that often lacks understanding can be overwhelming,” says Blakey. “Many parents experience a relentless cycle of stress from the high demands of caregiving, financial burdens, and difficulty finding reliable support systems.”
Expert-Recommended Strategies to Combat Burnout
Blakey advises parents to be proactive about self-care, “The best way to support your child is by taking the time to take care of your own mental and physical health. Caregivers need to give themselves permission to rest and recharge because burnout doesn’t help anyone.”
He recommends several strategies to help parents manage their stress:
Seek Professional Support: Therapy or counseling can provide a safe space to navigate emotions and develop coping strategies tailored to your situation.
Prioritize Self-Care Routines: Even small acts of self-care, such as exercise, meditation, or engaging in hobbies, can restore balance and improve emotional resilience.
Build a Support Group: Connecting with other parents facing similar challenges can keep you from isolating yourself and provide valuable insights and encouragement.
Accept Help from Others: Whether it’s family, friends, or respite care services, accepting assistance allows parents to take necessary breaks and recharge.
Set Realistic Expectations: Recognizing that perfection is unattainable can help parents focus on doing their best without unnecessary self-judgment.
Educate and Advocate for Yourself: Understanding parental rights, community resources, and available therapies can alleviate some of the uncertainty and empower parents to seek support.
Seeking and Accepting Support Without Guilt
“It’s okay to let go of guilt and embrace self-care as a necessity. It’s not selfish to take care of yourself – it’s essential. Managing burnout benefits everyone who is involved in raising a child with autism. When caregivers are supported and emotionally balanced, they can provide better care, advocate better, and create a healthier home environment for their child.
“Recognizing burnout early and working these coping strategies into daily life allows parents to continue their journey with renewed strength, patience, and resilience. Autism parenting is a marathon, not a sprint, and every day is different, so getting the resources you need is the best way to have long-term success and well-being for everyone.”
About Autism Parenting Magazine
Autism Parenting Magazine is an award-winning publication dedicated to improving the lives of families affected by autism worldwide. Established in 2012, the magazine provides objective coverage of autism-related topics, events, treatments, and success stories, offering a valuable resource for parents seeking informed decisions and the latest therapeutic options. With contributions from professionals, autism experts, and individuals on the spectrum, the magazine fosters a supportive community while advocating for understanding, acceptance, and individualized approaches to autism care.
Mark Blakey is the CEO of Autism Parenting Daily.
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