Ideas to Spice Up Your Relationship & Love Life
Spicing up your love life is paramount to keep your marriage alive. Healthy intimacy is vital for any long-term relationship. Being always able to enjoy one another is one of the most effective ways to blow off some steam in a couple, take your mind out from everyday chores and responsibilities, and live a more pleasant and satisfying life overall. Whether the physical chemistry is lacking in your couple, or if you simply want to add some spice to your bedroom life, here are a bunch of surprisingly easy tips for you.
Find a funny way to know what your partner wants
One of the worst ways to learn if your partner is satisfied is to simply ask it directly. Hard approaches are usually doomed to fail and frequently disappointment is just hidden behind a smile. One of the best ways to fight off some of the embarrassment or vagueness typically associated with bedroom conversations is to plan some fun activity together. Think about a trivia game that asks about… naughty stuff: it’s the best way to hear your partner’s unbiased opinion about what he or she likes or dreams. Or maybe do a sexy quiz together: you may be surprised to find out how many things you never knew he or she liked!
Put something purple in your bedroom
Some researchers found that people who had purple furniture or bedding in their bedrooms could double their chance to have intimate encounters than people who didn’t. Silk sheets can increase this chance even more, so why don’t you treat yourself with a fancy purple silk sheet next time you do some online shopping? It can also be a great idea for your next Valentine’s present!
Have a good laugh together
Throw away those boring candles and depressing love music, they’re not helping. Researchers found that laughing a lot can help improve your love life more than any stereotypical romantic gig. Do something that pumps up your adrenaline and increases your heart rate much like a fitness session, watching an action flick, or spending a night dancing at a club. And if you do that together, that’s even better.
Talk, talk, and… talk even more
Is your husband or wife satisfied with their own sex life? Although you probably answered “yes”, when was the last time you directly asked him or her? How much do you know about your partner’s real desires? Many couples do not talk about their love life comfortably enough, and when this happens, dissatisfaction may be almost a certainty. Communication is fundamental for all couples, and you must be even more patient, open-minded, and kind when you talk about the most intimate aspects of your relationship.
As you can see, having a better love life is even simpler than you thought, and thanks to these simple tips you can even start right now!
Thank you,
Glenda, Charlie and David Cates
