As you all know we have been working on purchasing this trailer and each time we come close to signing the papers my dad comes up with a new demand. Now, you might ask what does your dad have to do with you purchasing your home and it is because he was going to pay the down payment for us.
Although since the middle of last month I knew it wasn’t going to happen and we needed to prepare to move. Although David had his head buried in the sand and said he would take care of everything and for me not to worry. So everyday I would ask David what we was going to do and he would snap at me and say I will take care of.
Although my question was “WHEN”!?!? We have less than 3 weeks before Charlie returns to school and we need to get things settled as I wasn’t wanting to move after school started. Plus if we were going to have to move I wanted to have enough time to get settled and for Charlie to be able to make friends in his new home.
Over the weekend Tommy went to my mother in laws and let her know he was looking for us. So Sherry came by on Monday to let me know so I would be able to get into touch with Tommy. Once David got home I mentioned Tommy was looking for us and before he could go down to Tommy’s he ended up here.
So he and David talked as I was in the middle of a project I needed to complete. Once David came in he let me know him and Tommy was going to call my dad on Tuesday evening to see what he wanted to do. Even though I had told David time and time again what dad wanted from Tommy. But being a man David wouldn’t listen to me so I sat her and waited.
2 hours later David comes in the door flustered and upset and before he could even start talking to me I had to ask him to calm down. Once David caught his breath he let me know we would need to start packing as we was being told to move. My heart sank to the ground and Charlie overheard David and just started crying as this is his home and he doesn’t want to move.
I set down and redone the budget and figured we can offer Tommy $100 more a month if he would take it and not ask us to move. David went back down to Tommy’s to give him this information and now we are in a holding pattern as Tommy says he will let us know if we need to move by Friday.
So as I sat her today and try and wrap my head around everything I am having trouble focusing although I know God has plans for our family and if it isn’t to live her and we have to move everything will be fine as long as we face it together with God. Although that doesn’t stop me from being afraid and worried.
So with no, phone I can’t even call my dad to let him know we may have to move and if we do move we will have to go into a apartment which means we have to get rid of our dogs as we can’t afford a dog deposit and get rid of all of Charlies outside toys and the new Picnic items we got for the deck.
So it looks like it is time to finish going through things and to set up a Garage sale as I can’t afford to wait until the last moment. So all I can say is David says not to worry and he will take care of things even if it means he needs to get a second job. Although there is no, way with the hours he works that that would work as he would end up sick
So Please keep my family in your PRAYERS and no, matter what it is in “GODS” hands and I am fully relying on God including if I have to move to Oklahoma and shut the blog down and get a job. So this morning as I sit her and work all I can say is it is time to “Fully Rely On God” and he will not give us more than we can handle.
Thank you,
Glenda, Charlie and David Cates
